What happens when you meet your Soulmate -Twin flame at the wrong time?
Soulmates often enter in your life unexpectedly, although we do have more than one in or lifetime and of course not all come at the same time.
Many times they enter in our life for a brief moment to help us learn something about ourselves. This helps us fulfill our destiny and grow spiritually. With so many different Soulmates that enter in our lifetime, there is always a divine purpose and reason why they met. Dating is never and easy thing and meeting so many different people can be stressful at first, confusing and also discouraging.
I am asked on a weekly base the same question: “how to speed the process to find my true soulmate?” and “how to tell if this is my twin flame?”
Commonly, you can be involved in a committed relationship and you suddenly find your Soulmate or Twin flame on some type of social media (Twitter, Facebook, Instagram and more). It will cause some confusion, knowing that your life has taken different turns in so many different directions. Opening your eyes to see with a clear vision about your life choices, making you realize that this committed relationship was not truly a commitment, making you realize at which pathway you are in life and what changes you need to make for your future. The problem is not why you went looking for your Soulmate but understanding why they were sent to you in order to help you discover deeper details about yourself and the choices you need to make for your future. Many of you would think that your Twin flame entered in your life at the wrong time, but actually it was all in a divine timing, you never went looking for it, it just happened like that, without realizing that they were your Twin flame.
If you are in a similar type of situation and find yourself very drawn to someone, try to really look at what is going on in your relationship and try to find some kind of balance. An awakening can happen at any time and with awakenings, they is an eye-opener phenomenon that heals past wounds in order to move forward. Everyone’s situation is unique and not everybody is going to encounter the same type of challenge. Think of all that as part of growing Spiritually that you have to get through with different types of love relationships and that you may have had struggles with. Then it comes to a point where you only find out that this type of situation was not what you thought it was until you met the “One”.. your true Soulmate or Twin flame.
What happens if you and your Soulmate are not ready? This is often called the Runner and Chaser stages. This is when you let go and release any type of toxic and negative energy out of your life. You may not be completely ready and you may be scared, then you find out that they are not available or ready, not just yet because of their own emotional issues. There is a lot of pain and heartache when you two cannot be together. Asking yourself the questions of why your twin flame entered your life but cannot be a part of your life? You may have tried to move on finding another but you always find yourself back with them sooner or later. The Runner and Chaser stages usually goes around in circles. This plays a big role in both souls working on themselves and healing from whatever they are working on, until they are ready to come together into a divine union. Despite of whatever is happening in both of your lives, the Universe has a plan and there is absolutely nothing that you can do to cut the ties or speed them up. Often, we are sent other people to help us, many times they are a type of soulmate that can get us through these challenges.
Spiritual awakenings are all about discovering about ourselves, finding out when we can see that we are really to fully live our life's. Many times, we grow out of a situation that we thought was going to last forever.. you really have to examine and look for the truth that can’t be denied. Your Soulmate enters in your life and your life has changed and turned right around. Now you figured out your life and thought that you were grounded, you come to find that you were actually behind a mask. You meet your twin flame and everything seems perfect but then you realize that you may have went through your awakening before your Twin did and you are trying to understand why you met this person when you were not ready for your soulmate and now they are not awake.
The best thing to do is not to stress and be hard on yourself. It is not time yet for either of you to come together, but it is time for you to work on yourself. Eliminating the negative and toxic situations out of your life, being more assertive on what you want and most importantly, loving yourself first before anyone else. It’s not a selfish act but you need to really embrace the love in your heart. Treating yourself with respect, never being hard on yourself with negative words and not allowing anyone to ever bring you down. This is the first step to connect with your soulmate.
This is all part of the process to correct and work on yourself. It is very challenging but a most rewarding experience to be united with your soulmate and/or Twin flame.
I also want to wish everyone a very happy Thanksgiving, wherever you are, to you, your family & loved ones!
For those who are not celebrating this North American tradition, it is also a good time to be thankful for everything that you have in your life right now and everyone that has touched, touched your life and guided you to a good path.